Why are people like this on dating sites? Is there some twisted logic in here that would explain why someone would think being rude to someone will get them a date? Or is it really just as simple as high-school playground jibes, the boys tease the girls they actually like?

I should probably explain. On my profile, I’ve asked people not to message me just saying ‘What’s up’, due to me suddenly getting an overwhelming number of messages (about 20 a day) that just said: ‘Wassup’ ‘Wazzup’ ‘What’s up’ ‘Sup’ etc etc. They weren’t making for very interesting blog posts. On the other hand, people who hate my dismissiveness of ‘What’s up’ tend to make very interesting blog posts, as ‘cleverchap’ proved below: Read More »

I’m finding religion is creeping into more and more plentyoffish messages I receive. Don’t get me wrong, I could date someone who’s religious if it didn’t have too big an impact on our lifestyle and relationship choices. However, the whole ‘you look alternative so you must be satanic’ line is wearing a little thin these days. Read More »

New York’s a pretty lonely place for ‘CoolBreezeDee’. He can’t decide if he wants to sell himself by talking about the things he likes and cares about, or by ranting at us about how everyone ignores him and doesn’t like him because of his ethnicity. He also can’t decide if he WANTS TO TYPE IN ALL CAPITALS or lowercase.

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Earlier today I received the following message from ‘waytookinky4u’:

waytookinky4u:
Hiii :) how are youuu
you look stunning mm the things id do to you

I messaged back saying thanks but no thanks without even bothering to look at his profile, as he had no picture and his username suggests we’re really not going to get on. However, after I’d pressed send, I thought I’d check his profile out, just to see if he talked about some of these ‘kinks’ he’s into. Oh boy, did he. Read More »